Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts And You Don't Know WhyRandom House Publishing Group, 2011年7月20日 - 304 頁 Is this the way love is supposed to feel? • Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? • Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? • Is he extremely jealous and possessive? • Does he switch from charm to anger without warning? • Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? • Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you? • Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship? • Do you find yourself “walking on eggs” and apologizing all the time? If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern, you may be in love with a misogynist — a man who loves you, yet causes you tremendous pain because he acts as if he hates you. In this superb self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the voices of men and women trapped in these negative relationships to help you understand your man’s destructive pattern and the part you play in it. She shows how to break the pattern, heal the hurt, regain your self-respect, and either rebuild your relationship or find the courage to love a truly loving man. BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Susan Forward's Toxic Parents. |
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第 4 頁
... behavior doesn't sound loving . In fact , it sounds as if there's a lot of psychological abuse going on . " But what was I saying to myself ? The Susan who went home at night twisted herself into a pretzel try- ing to keep her husband ...
... behavior doesn't sound loving . In fact , it sounds as if there's a lot of psychological abuse going on . " But what was I saying to myself ? The Susan who went home at night twisted herself into a pretzel try- ing to keep her husband ...
第 5 頁
... behavior of the men that claimed my attention . As their partners described them , they were often charming and even loving , but they were able to switch to cruel , critical , and insulting behavior on a moment's notice . Their behavior ...
... behavior of the men that claimed my attention . As their partners described them , they were often charming and even loving , but they were able to switch to cruel , critical , and insulting behavior on a moment's notice . Their behavior ...
第 6 頁
... behavior was so familiar to all of us , no one had yet described it in a cohesive way . At this point I started reviewing the psychological literature . Be- cause of the man's lack of sensitivity to the pain he was causing his partner ...
... behavior was so familiar to all of us , no one had yet described it in a cohesive way . At this point I started reviewing the psychological literature . Be- cause of the man's lack of sensitivity to the pain he was causing his partner ...
第 7 頁
... behavior with men . In reality , women learn these behaviors early , and are consistently rewarded and praised for them . The paradox here is that the behaviors that make a woman vulnerable to mistreatment are the very ones she has been ...
... behavior with men . In reality , women learn these behaviors early , and are consistently rewarded and praised for them . The paradox here is that the behaviors that make a woman vulnerable to mistreatment are the very ones she has been ...
第 29 頁
... Behavior Rationalization is what we do when we smooth over any insight that interferes with our good feelings . It's a way of making the unac- ceptable acceptable . By giving " good reasons " for what would oth- erwise distress us , we ...
... Behavior Rationalization is what we do when we smooth over any insight that interferes with our good feelings . It's a way of making the unac- ceptable acceptable . By giving " good reasons " for what would oth- erwise distress us , we ...
內容
Where He Gains ControlArenas | 57 |
What Keeps Women Hooked? | 85 |
How Men Learn to Hate Women | 97 |
How Women Learn to Love WomenHaters | 123 |
Madness for Two | 144 |
How Are You Feeling? | 158 |
Healing the Past | 188 |
Taking Charge of Your Anger | 201 |
Getting Professional Help | 230 |
Knowing When to Leave | 243 |
Finding Yourself Again | 273 |
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