Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts And You Don't Know WhyRandom House Publishing Group, 2011年7月20日 - 304 頁 Is this the way love is supposed to feel? • Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? • Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? • Is he extremely jealous and possessive? • Does he switch from charm to anger without warning? • Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? • Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you? • Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship? • Do you find yourself “walking on eggs” and apologizing all the time? If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern, you may be in love with a misogynist — a man who loves you, yet causes you tremendous pain because he acts as if he hates you. In this superb self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the voices of men and women trapped in these negative relationships to help you understand your man’s destructive pattern and the part you play in it. She shows how to break the pattern, heal the hurt, regain your self-respect, and either rebuild your relationship or find the courage to love a truly loving man. BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Susan Forward's Toxic Parents. |
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第 5 頁
... blamed their wives or lovers for any and every unpleasant event . I knew from my experience in working with couples that every marriage has two sides . However , it's easy for therapists to over- identify with the client when we only ...
... blamed their wives or lovers for any and every unpleasant event . I knew from my experience in working with couples that every marriage has two sides . However , it's easy for therapists to over- identify with the client when we only ...
第 8 頁
... blamed me for everything from his business prob- lems to the fact that his shoes weren't shined properly . Although my work was our major source of income at that time , he often ridiculed the psychotherapeutic profession in general and ...
... blamed me for everything from his business prob- lems to the fact that his shoes weren't shined properly . Although my work was our major source of income at that time , he often ridiculed the psychotherapeutic profession in general and ...
第 10 頁
... blame you for everything that tionship ? goes wrong in the rela- If they answered " yes " to most of my questions , I knew they were involved with misogynists . Once I had clarified for them what was going on in their lives , I could ...
... blame you for everything that tionship ? goes wrong in the rela- If they answered " yes " to most of my questions , I knew they were involved with misogynists . Once I had clarified for them what was going on in their lives , I could ...
第 11 頁
... blame . I knew then that I had to write this book - not only to help women understand what was happening to them , but also what they could do about it . Before any of us can change a relationship , we have to under- stand what is ...
... blame . I knew then that I had to write this book - not only to help women understand what was happening to them , but also what they could do about it . Before any of us can change a relationship , we have to under- stand what is ...
第 26 頁
... blames others for his failures . • Compare , for example , these two men : Man # 1 has always worked hard and been financially respon- sible . The company he works for is sold and his job is phased out . He needs to borrow some money ...
... blames others for his failures . • Compare , for example , these two men : Man # 1 has always worked hard and been financially respon- sible . The company he works for is sold and his job is phased out . He needs to borrow some money ...
內容
Where He Gains ControlArenas | 57 |
What Keeps Women Hooked? | 85 |
How Men Learn to Hate Women | 97 |
How Women Learn to Love WomenHaters | 123 |
Madness for Two | 144 |
How Are You Feeling? | 158 |
Healing the Past | 188 |
Taking Charge of Your Anger | 201 |
Getting Professional Help | 230 |
Knowing When to Leave | 243 |
Finding Yourself Again | 273 |
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