Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts And You Don't Know WhyRandom House Publishing Group, 2011年7月20日 - 304 頁 Is this the way love is supposed to feel? • Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? • Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? • Is he extremely jealous and possessive? • Does he switch from charm to anger without warning? • Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? • Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you? • Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship? • Do you find yourself “walking on eggs” and apologizing all the time? If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern, you may be in love with a misogynist — a man who loves you, yet causes you tremendous pain because he acts as if he hates you. In this superb self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the voices of men and women trapped in these negative relationships to help you understand your man’s destructive pattern and the part you play in it. She shows how to break the pattern, heal the hurt, regain your self-respect, and either rebuild your relationship or find the courage to love a truly loving man. BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Susan Forward's Toxic Parents. |
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... felt pretty good about the way I looked until Ed started cutting ads out of magazines . He'd tell me he wanted me to look more like this one or that one .... I began to feel really unattractive . " " He'd say , ' I've got a big meeting ...
... felt pretty good about the way I looked until Ed started cutting ads out of magazines . He'd tell me he wanted me to look more like this one or that one .... I began to feel really unattractive . " " He'd say , ' I've got a big meeting ...
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... felt about herself that she seldom left home . The decline of Nancy's self - esteem seemed to have begun when she married Jeff . Yet , when I questioned her A Personal Introduction MEN WHO HATE WOMEN The Most Romantic Man in the World.
... felt about herself that she seldom left home . The decline of Nancy's self - esteem seemed to have begun when she married Jeff . Yet , when I questioned her A Personal Introduction MEN WHO HATE WOMEN The Most Romantic Man in the World.
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... felt like sinking into the upholstery . I could hardly swallow my food afterwards . Nancy began to cry as she recalled several other humiliating scenes in which Jeff had called her stupid , selfish , or thoughtless . When enraged , he ...
... felt like sinking into the upholstery . I could hardly swallow my food afterwards . Nancy began to cry as she recalled several other humiliating scenes in which Jeff had called her stupid , selfish , or thoughtless . When enraged , he ...
第 4 頁
... felt a little steadier and less lost . But I began to feel shaky . Nancy's story had hit me very hard . I knew that as a therapist , my reactions to a client were important tools . I make emotional con- nections with the people I work ...
... felt a little steadier and less lost . But I began to feel shaky . Nancy's story had hit me very hard . I knew that as a therapist , my reactions to a client were important tools . I make emotional con- nections with the people I work ...
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... felt both threatened and enraged by his partner's suffering . The woman was no more a masochist than the man was a sadist . She did not get any hidden sexual or emotional pleasure from her partner's abusive treatment of her . In- stead ...
... felt both threatened and enraged by his partner's suffering . The woman was no more a masochist than the man was a sadist . She did not get any hidden sexual or emotional pleasure from her partner's abusive treatment of her . In- stead ...
內容
Where He Gains ControlArenas | 57 |
What Keeps Women Hooked? | 85 |
How Men Learn to Hate Women | 97 |
How Women Learn to Love WomenHaters | 123 |
Madness for Two | 144 |
How Are You Feeling? | 158 |
Healing the Past | 188 |
Taking Charge of Your Anger | 201 |
Getting Professional Help | 230 |
Knowing When to Leave | 243 |
Finding Yourself Again | 273 |
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