Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts And You Don't Know WhyRandom House Publishing Group, 2011年7月20日 - 304 頁 Is this the way love is supposed to feel? • Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? • Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? • Is he extremely jealous and possessive? • Does he switch from charm to anger without warning? • Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? • Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you? • Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship? • Do you find yourself “walking on eggs” and apologizing all the time? If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern, you may be in love with a misogynist — a man who loves you, yet causes you tremendous pain because he acts as if he hates you. In this superb self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the voices of men and women trapped in these negative relationships to help you understand your man’s destructive pattern and the part you play in it. She shows how to break the pattern, heal the hurt, regain your self-respect, and either rebuild your relationship or find the courage to love a truly loving man. BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Susan Forward's Toxic Parents. |
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... going out with him with his clients because we'd still hold hands like high - school lovers . I'm the envy of all my friends because of him . One friend said , " You've got the special one , Nancy . " And I know he is . But look at me ...
... going out with him with his clients because we'd still hold hands like high - school lovers . I'm the envy of all my friends because of him . One friend said , " You've got the special one , Nancy . " And I know he is . But look at me ...
第 4 頁
... going on . " But what was I saying to myself ? The Susan who went home at night twisted herself into a pretzel try- ing to keep her husband from yelling at her . That Susan kept telling herself that he was a wonderful man , that he was ...
... going on . " But what was I saying to myself ? The Susan who went home at night twisted herself into a pretzel try- ing to keep her husband from yelling at her . That Susan kept telling herself that he was a wonderful man , that he was ...
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... going on in a relationship . I know that it is be- havior , not words , that defines reality . As I listened to my clients , I asked myself : Is this the way you treat someone you really love ? Isn't this in fact the way you treat ...
... going on in a relationship . I know that it is be- havior , not words , that defines reality . As I listened to my clients , I asked myself : Is this the way you treat someone you really love ? Isn't this in fact the way you treat ...
第 10 頁
... going on in their lives , I could hear the relief in their voices , even over the air . Convinced that I had discovered a major psychological disorder , I decided to test the waters further by discussing the topic on A.M. Los Angeles ...
... going on in their lives , I could hear the relief in their voices , even over the air . Convinced that I had discovered a major psychological disorder , I decided to test the waters further by discussing the topic on A.M. Los Angeles ...
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... going on within such relationships can offer tremendous relief from the crushing burden of self - blame . I knew then that I had to write this book - not only to help women understand what was happening to them , but also what they ...
... going on within such relationships can offer tremendous relief from the crushing burden of self - blame . I knew then that I had to write this book - not only to help women understand what was happening to them , but also what they ...
內容
Where He Gains ControlArenas | 57 |
What Keeps Women Hooked? | 85 |
How Men Learn to Hate Women | 97 |
How Women Learn to Love WomenHaters | 123 |
Madness for Two | 144 |
How Are You Feeling? | 158 |
Healing the Past | 188 |
Taking Charge of Your Anger | 201 |
Getting Professional Help | 230 |
Knowing When to Leave | 243 |
Finding Yourself Again | 273 |
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