Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts And You Don't Know WhyRandom House Publishing Group, 2011年7月20日 - 304 頁 Is this the way love is supposed to feel? • Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? • Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? • Is he extremely jealous and possessive? • Does he switch from charm to anger without warning? • Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? • Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you? • Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship? • Do you find yourself “walking on eggs” and apologizing all the time? If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern, you may be in love with a misogynist — a man who loves you, yet causes you tremendous pain because he acts as if he hates you. In this superb self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the voices of men and women trapped in these negative relationships to help you understand your man’s destructive pattern and the part you play in it. She shows how to break the pattern, heal the hurt, regain your self-respect, and either rebuild your relationship or find the courage to love a truly loving man. BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Susan Forward's Toxic Parents. |
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第 1 到 5 筆結果,共 46 筆
第 i 頁
... painful to have friends over . I was ashamed for them to see me taking it . " It was incredible how different I felt at work than I did at home . At work , people respected me , but the minute I walked in the front door I fell to pieces ...
... painful to have friends over . I was ashamed for them to see me taking it . " It was incredible how different I felt at work than I did at home . At work , people respected me , but the minute I walked in the front door I fell to pieces ...
第 5 頁
... pain . All of them had dramatic losses of self- esteem , and many had additional symptoms and reactions . Nancy had ulcers , was overweight , and had let her appearance go ; others had severe problems with drug and / or alcohol abuse ...
... pain . All of them had dramatic losses of self- esteem , and many had additional symptoms and reactions . Nancy had ulcers , was overweight , and had let her appearance go ; others had severe problems with drug and / or alcohol abuse ...
第 6 頁
... pain he was causing his partner , I first reexamined character disorders . People with charac- ter disorders have little capacity for guilt , remorse , or anxiety . These emotions are uncomfortable but necessary monitors of our ethical ...
... pain he was causing his partner , I first reexamined character disorders . People with charac- ter disorders have little capacity for guilt , remorse , or anxiety . These emotions are uncomfortable but necessary monitors of our ethical ...
第 7 頁
... pain and suffering they were causing their partners . Were they , in fact , sadists ? After all , many of the people I discussed my discoveries with as- sured me that the women involved with these men were classic text- book masochists ...
... pain and suffering they were causing their partners . Were they , in fact , sadists ? After all , many of the people I discussed my discoveries with as- sured me that the women involved with these men were classic text- book masochists ...
第 11 頁
... pain eventually experienced by every woman who is in love with a misogynist . I describe the men themselves and how they came to behave the way they do , and I look also at how and why women learn to accept poor treatment from men ...
... pain eventually experienced by every woman who is in love with a misogynist . I describe the men themselves and how they came to behave the way they do , and I look also at how and why women learn to accept poor treatment from men ...
內容
Where He Gains ControlArenas | 57 |
What Keeps Women Hooked? | 85 |
How Men Learn to Hate Women | 97 |
How Women Learn to Love WomenHaters | 123 |
Madness for Two | 144 |
How Are You Feeling? | 158 |
Healing the Past | 188 |
Taking Charge of Your Anger | 201 |
Getting Professional Help | 230 |
Knowing When to Leave | 243 |
Finding Yourself Again | 273 |
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