Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them: When Loving Hurts And You Don't Know WhyRandom House Publishing Group, 2011年7月20日 - 304 頁 Is this the way love is supposed to feel? • Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave? • Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy? • Is he extremely jealous and possessive? • Does he switch from charm to anger without warning? • Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments? • Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you? • Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship? • Do you find yourself “walking on eggs” and apologizing all the time? If the questions here reveal a familiar pattern, you may be in love with a misogynist — a man who loves you, yet causes you tremendous pain because he acts as if he hates you. In this superb self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the voices of men and women trapped in these negative relationships to help you understand your man’s destructive pattern and the part you play in it. She shows how to break the pattern, heal the hurt, regain your self-respect, and either rebuild your relationship or find the courage to love a truly loving man. BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Susan Forward's Toxic Parents. |
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第 1 頁
... reason Jeff stays is because he loves me . W Then Nancy first came to see me she was sixty pounds over- weight and had an ulcer . She wore old , baggy jeans and a shapeless smock ; her hair was stringy , her fingernails were bitten down ...
... reason Jeff stays is because he loves me . W Then Nancy first came to see me she was sixty pounds over- weight and had an ulcer . She wore old , baggy jeans and a shapeless smock ; her hair was stringy , her fingernails were bitten down ...
第 3 頁
... reason . It was at Jeff's insistence that Nancy had quit her job when they married . Now she felt incapable of returning to her career . As she described it : Now I wouldn't even have the nerve to go on an interview , much less a buying ...
... reason . It was at Jeff's insistence that Nancy had quit her job when they married . Now she felt incapable of returning to her career . As she described it : Now I wouldn't even have the nerve to go on an interview , much less a buying ...
第 23 頁
... a misogynistic relationship is the sense of underlying desperation in both partners , each of whom has a frantic need to bind the other person to him . Mark told me , " The reason I came on The Most Romantic Man in the World | 23.
... a misogynistic relationship is the sense of underlying desperation in both partners , each of whom has a frantic need to bind the other person to him . Mark told me , " The reason I came on The Most Romantic Man in the World | 23.
第 24 頁
... reason I came on so strong to Jackie was that I was afraid I would lose her if I didn't . " In Mark's statement there is more than just love for Jackie : there is a sense of panic . He added : On our second date I just laid it all out ...
... reason I came on so strong to Jackie was that I was afraid I would lose her if I didn't . " In Mark's statement there is more than just love for Jackie : there is a sense of panic . He added : On our second date I just laid it all out ...
第 29 頁
... reasons " for what would oth- erwise distress us , we make sense out of confusing and even frightening situations . It is different from the blindness I discussed in chapter I in that we do see and acknowledge the unpleasantness , but ...
... reasons " for what would oth- erwise distress us , we make sense out of confusing and even frightening situations . It is different from the blindness I discussed in chapter I in that we do see and acknowledge the unpleasantness , but ...
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Where He Gains ControlArenas | 57 |
What Keeps Women Hooked? | 85 |
How Men Learn to Hate Women | 97 |
How Women Learn to Love WomenHaters | 123 |
Madness for Two | 144 |
How Are You Feeling? | 158 |
Healing the Past | 188 |
Taking Charge of Your Anger | 201 |
Getting Professional Help | 230 |
Knowing When to Leave | 243 |
Finding Yourself Again | 273 |
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