Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You?Hazelden Publishing, 2002年2月26日 - 224 頁 A companion to the best-selling book of the same title, this popular, newly revised workbook helps couples create a deeply satisfying, more intimate relationship. Focusing on the ever-present dynamic of conflict--and the process of working through it--the authors guide couples in getting to the root of recurring disagreements and destructive behaviors. Self-assessment exercises and couple activities help readers recognize unloving responses, move past fear, identify self-protective and negative beliefs, break down power struggles, and reach out in forgiveness. The principles outlined in this powerful, easy-to-use workbook have helped thousands of couples and families create more loving relationships. Key features and benefits a proven best-seller highly recommended by marriage therapists includes exercises for couples to explore core beliefs and values |
內容
Our Personal Odyssey | 25 |
Introduction to the Exercises | 43 |
Loving Behavior | 49 |
Basic Learning Skills | 79 |
Learning from Your Feelings | 86 |
Questions to Ask When Wanting to Learn about Another Person | 92 |
Passive Listening | 99 |
Power Struggles | 105 |
Protections and Consequences | 113 |
Acknowledging and Respecting Fear | 145 |
Healing | 163 |
Continuing the Process | 181 |
Inner Bonding | 197 |
About the Authors | 209 |
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