Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You: Second Edition
As the coronavirus pandemic changes the way we live and work, partners may be spending more time together, warts and all. This book can help couples anticipate and approach occasional or chronic conflict with compassion and creativity.
This classic text for couples interested in creating freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationships explores the delicate balance of being true to oneself and being loved by another.
Newly updated by the authors, here is the classic text for couples interested in creating freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationships. In their best-selling book about couple relationships, Jordan Paul and Margaret Paul explore the delicate balance of being true to oneself and being loved by another. While couples think they are fighting about money, sex, or time, the authors reveal how such conflicts are almost always more deeply rooted and related to issues of self-protection. Offering a solid framework for conflict resolution, the authors guide couples in working through fears and false beliefs that can block the expression of loving feelings. Stories of couples and examples of dialogue validate readers- feelings and experiences.Key features and benefitsa proven best-sellerhighly recommended by marriage therapistsincludes exercises for couples to explore core beliefs and values
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A husband blames his wife because she doesn't want sex often enough. ... For example, if you want to be thinner, then choose a diet and force yourself to stay on it. ... and feeling bad—what if you don't want to come home?
Don't be you. Be what I want you to be or I won't love you.“ The message always comes down to: ”Give yourself up.“ But people can't feel deeply loved unless they are approved of and respected for being who they really are.
We choose our intent freely, but the choice is made so automatically we usually don't know we've made one. ... The squirrel may want the tempting acorn outside very much, but he has no way of getting it until he's willing to leave his ...
When we see something we don't like, we judge it and want to change it rather than understand it; we look for the immediate solution rather than seek to understand why the problem arose. Do you take aspirin for headaches, sleeping pills ...
... to change to—but why things are the way they are and what is getting in the way of each of us having what we want. ... Each of us sees reality through an automatic perspective very much like a pair of glasses we don't know we're ...
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This book is for everyone who wants the excitement of feeling in love along with the richnes and dimension that comes only with a lasting, committed relationship. Contents include charts illustrating ... 閱讀評論全文
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