Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You: Second Edition
As the coronavirus pandemic changes the way we live and work, partners may be spending more time together, warts and all. This book can help couples anticipate and approach occasional or chronic conflict with compassion and creativity.
This classic text for couples interested in creating freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationships explores the delicate balance of being true to oneself and being loved by another.
Newly updated by the authors, here is the classic text for couples interested in creating freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationships. In their best-selling book about couple relationships, Jordan Paul and Margaret Paul explore the delicate balance of being true to oneself and being loved by another. While couples think they are fighting about money, sex, or time, the authors reveal how such conflicts are almost always more deeply rooted and related to issues of self-protection. Offering a solid framework for conflict resolution, the authors guide couples in working through fears and false beliefs that can block the expression of loving feelings. Stories of couples and examples of dialogue validate readers- feelings and experiences.Key features and benefitsa proven best-sellerhighly recommended by marriage therapistsincludes exercises for couples to explore core beliefs and values
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Attempts to get the other to change bring on power struggles, each person bent on winning—or at least not losing. Giving oneself up may eliminate power struggles, but the submission itself becomes part of the problem.
However, even exploring itself can become locked into a power struggle. If one partner wants to explore and the other is resistant, the open one needs to back off and do his or her own learning. Pushing another to open and learn is just ...
You can resolve some conflicts easily once you unlock the issue from the power struggle. But some issues may require days, months, or even years of exploring before they are resolved. When you resolve a conflict that has tapped into ...
Released from the power struggle, Carol found herself caring more about Mike's anxiety and therefore better able to be on time. (If Carol had also been highly motivated to be late—perhaps to exert power over others by keeping them ...
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This book is for everyone who wants the excitement of feeling in love along with the richnes and dimension that comes only with a lasting, committed relationship. Contents include charts illustrating ... 閱讀評論全文
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