Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You: Second EditionSimon and Schuster, 2010年6月7日 - 288 頁 This classic text for couples interested in creating freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationships explores the delicate balance of being true to oneself and being loved by another. Newly updated by the authors, here is the classic text for couples interested in creating freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationships. In their best-selling book about couple relationships, Jordan Paul and Margaret Paul explore the delicate balance of being true to oneself and being loved by another. While couples think they are fighting about money, sex, or time, the authors reveal how such conflicts are almost always more deeply rooted and related to issues of self-protection. Offering a solid framework for conflict resolution, the authors guide couples in working through fears and false beliefs that can block the expression of loving feelings. Stories of couples and examples of dialogue validate readers- feelings and experiences.Key features and benefitsa proven best-sellerhighly recommended by marriage therapistsincludes exercises for couples to explore core beliefs and values |
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... wrong and needed to be “cured.” We were also expecting them to be able to make any “necessary adjustment” in their bad behavior. We were victims of the false notion that change comes about merely by decision and willpower. Most ...
... wrong and needed to be “cured.” We were also expecting them to be able to make any “necessary adjustment” in their bad behavior. We were victims of the false notion that change comes about merely by decision and willpower. Most ...
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... wrong“ and ”I won't love you until you do things my way.“ (3) Indifference/Resistance (covert control)—ignoring the conflict, withdrawing into separate preoccupations (TV, work, drugs, sports). This implies, ”I'm not affected by you ...
... wrong“ and ”I won't love you until you do things my way.“ (3) Indifference/Resistance (covert control)—ignoring the conflict, withdrawing into separate preoccupations (TV, work, drugs, sports). This implies, ”I'm not affected by you ...
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... wrong to be protective (calling it weak, hostile, cold, unfeeling), we make it harder to see our own protectiveness. And yet we all protect in a conflict to some degree—mostly for the following three important reasons: 1. We have never ...
... wrong to be protective (calling it weak, hostile, cold, unfeeling), we make it harder to see our own protectiveness. And yet we all protect in a conflict to some degree—mostly for the following three important reasons: 1. We have never ...
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... . Most of us were punished, not understood, when we broke the rules. Parents protect themselves by telling children they're wrong and trying to get them to conform. After all, parents were also raised this way. 2. We all have fears.
... . Most of us were punished, not understood, when we broke the rules. Parents protect themselves by telling children they're wrong and trying to get them to conform. After all, parents were also raised this way. 2. We all have fears.
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... he kept them waiting. Once he accepted that his feelings were his issue and stopped thinking Carol was wrong, the power struggle ceased. Released from the power struggle, How Resolutions Occur What Do We Do Until We Find a Resolution?
... he kept them waiting. Once he accepted that his feelings were his issue and stopped thinking Carol was wrong, the power struggle ceased. Released from the power struggle, How Resolutions Occur What Do We Do Until We Find a Resolution?
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afraid anger angry another’s answer attempt avoid aware become behave beliefs blame can’t child childhood clients conflict couples create deeply didn’t disapproval disconnected discover doesn’t don’t want Enneagram Essential Connections experience explore express face of fear fear feel loved felt freedom frightened Gestalt Therapy give guilt hard healing heart hurt important Inner Child intent to learn intimacy Intimate Love issue JORDAN JOSEPH CHILTON PEARCE kids lives loneliness losing loving action loving adult Margie Marilyn MARILYN FERGUSON marriage mate MAXINE means MILT never one’s Open Marriage open to learning other’s parents partner PEGGY personal responsibility power struggle problem protect ourselves protective circle questions rejection relationship resistance selfdoubts sense sexual share shut spiritual Guidance Sue cooked take responsibility talk therapy There’s things understand unhappy unloved upset values vulnerable want to know we’re What’s withdrawal wouldn’t wounded wrong