Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You: Second Edition
As the coronavirus pandemic changes the way we live and work, partners may be spending more time together, warts and all. This book can help couples anticipate and approach occasional or chronic conflict with compassion and creativity.
This classic text for couples interested in creating freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationships explores the delicate balance of being true to oneself and being loved by another.
Newly updated by the authors, here is the classic text for couples interested in creating freer, more joyful, and profoundly intimate relationships. In their best-selling book about couple relationships, Jordan Paul and Margaret Paul explore the delicate balance of being true to oneself and being loved by another. While couples think they are fighting about money, sex, or time, the authors reveal how such conflicts are almost always more deeply rooted and related to issues of self-protection. Offering a solid framework for conflict resolution, the authors guide couples in working through fears and false beliefs that can block the expression of loving feelings. Stories of couples and examples of dialogue validate readers- feelings and experiences.Key features and benefitsa proven best-sellerhighly recommended by marriage therapistsincludes exercises for couples to explore core beliefs and values
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When we, as therapists, tried to help our clients change their behavior (rather than understand and respect it), we were tacitly agreeing that they were wrong and needed to be “cured.” We were also expecting them to be able to make any ...
Disapproval (in the form of anger, criticism, tears, threats, lectures) tells the other, ”You are wrong“ and ”I won't love you until you do things my way.“ (3) Indifference/Resistance (covert control)—ignoring the conflict, ...
Have you explored your protections with your partner? Are you resistant to opening and learning? Use these questions as checkpoints to find out your intent. When we believe it's wrong to be protective (calling it weak ...
Most of us were punished, not understood, when we broke the rules. Parents protect themselves by telling children they're wrong and trying to get them to conform. After all, parents were also raised this way. 2. We all have fears.
Once he accepted that his feelings were his issue and stopped thinking Carol was wrong, the power struggle ceased. Released from the power struggle, How Resolutions Occur What Do We Do Until We Find a Resolution?
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This book is for everyone who wants the excitement of feeling in love along with the richnes and dimension that comes only with a lasting, committed relationship. Contents include charts illustrating ... 閱讀評論全文
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