Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved by You?Hazelden, 1994年4月19日 - 336 頁 The euphoria experienced when a new relationship begins soon wears off. Anger, disappointment or even hurt may begin to creep into long term relationships. Whether disputes are over money or sex, or simply that neither partner feels like talking at the same time - many couples may start to feel it's time to stop the rot. The aim of this book is to teach couples how to work through conflict and create more love and intimacy, not less. Chapters relate to fears and false beliefs that act as obstacles to loving feelings. In addition a section of exercises is provided for couples to explore together their feelings and beliefs about values, power struggles, and sexual expectations. |
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第 134 頁
... children . Having shut off all memories of how much the slights they felt in childhood hurt them , they criticize with impunity . When a parent stops a child's crying , the child is denied a natural outlet that discharges hurt . The child ...
... children . Having shut off all memories of how much the slights they felt in childhood hurt them , they criticize with impunity . When a parent stops a child's crying , the child is denied a natural outlet that discharges hurt . The child ...
第 136 頁
... children these qualities . This process is called " socialization " or " acculturation . " The parents ' job is to change the child's natural responses ( which are assumed to be unacceptable ) so the child will fit the cultural ...
... children these qualities . This process is called " socialization " or " acculturation . " The parents ' job is to change the child's natural responses ( which are assumed to be unacceptable ) so the child will fit the cultural ...
第 137 頁
... children want to become autonomous yet still keep their parents ' love . Parents want to control the child without losing his or her love . Both parents and children face the question : “ Do I have to give up me to be loved by you ...
... children want to become autonomous yet still keep their parents ' love . Parents want to control the child without losing his or her love . Both parents and children face the question : “ Do I have to give up me to be loved by you ...
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Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? | 1 |
The Paths through Conflict | 21 |
The How of Learning | 47 |
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afraid anger angry attempt become aware behave behavior believe blame Briggs points conflict couples critical deeply defensive difficulties disapproval emotional Evolving Relationship exercise expectations experience explore fear feel guilty feel loved feel wrong felt freedom give happen hard Hour Magazine hurt important insecure intent to learn INTENT TO PROTECT intimacy Intimate Love issue Jordan Joseph Chilton Pearce lives Lonnie Barbach losing Margie Marilyn marriage Masturbating mate MAXINE MILT mother/father NATHANIEL BRANDEN never okay Open Marriage open to learning oral sex orgasm other's pain PAIN/FEARS parallel lives parents partner feels PATH OF EVOLUTION PATH OF PROTECTION PEGGY PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY power struggle problems protective circle question resistance Sally Jesse Raphael sexual sexual fantasies share shut Silent Treatment someone sometimes Sue cooked talk tense therapy things trying to control uncomfortable unhappy unimportant upset values and beliefs vulnerable wanting to understand withdrawal