Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved by You?Hazelden, 1994年4月19日 - 336 頁 The euphoria experienced when a new relationship begins soon wears off. Anger, disappointment or even hurt may begin to creep into long term relationships. Whether disputes are over money or sex, or simply that neither partner feels like talking at the same time - many couples may start to feel it's time to stop the rot. The aim of this book is to teach couples how to work through conflict and create more love and intimacy, not less. Chapters relate to fears and false beliefs that act as obstacles to loving feelings. In addition a section of exercises is provided for couples to explore together their feelings and beliefs about values, power struggles, and sexual expectations. |
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第 1 到 3 筆結果,共 44 筆
第 8 頁
... create what we call a protective circle . When both run from conflict , there is a distant peace . Attempts to get the other to change brings on power struggles , each person bent on winning - or at least not losing . Giving oneself up ...
... create what we call a protective circle . When both run from conflict , there is a distant peace . Attempts to get the other to change brings on power struggles , each person bent on winning - or at least not losing . Giving oneself up ...
第 202 頁
... create it . At any time one partner can decide he or she has had it , and then the " safe " relationship goes up in ... created . Others may have established relatively satisfying relationships but hope to make your relationship better ...
... create it . At any time one partner can decide he or she has had it , and then the " safe " relationship goes up in ... created . Others may have established relatively satisfying relationships but hope to make your relationship better ...
第 218 頁
... created by his or her own actions , that person will never learn to be responsible . ― Problems Are Equally Created When ... create difficulties between us , but the things my partner does are worse . " When we fail to recognize our own ...
... created by his or her own actions , that person will never learn to be responsible . ― Problems Are Equally Created When ... create difficulties between us , but the things my partner does are worse . " When we fail to recognize our own ...
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Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? | 1 |
The Paths through Conflict | 21 |
The How of Learning | 47 |
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afraid anger angry attempt become aware behave behavior believe blame Briggs points conflict couples critical deeply defensive difficulties disapproval emotional Evolving Relationship exercise expectations experience explore fear feel guilty feel loved feel wrong felt freedom give happen hard Hour Magazine hurt important insecure intent to learn INTENT TO PROTECT intimacy Intimate Love issue Jordan Joseph Chilton Pearce lives Lonnie Barbach losing Margie Marilyn marriage Masturbating mate MAXINE MILT mother/father NATHANIEL BRANDEN never okay Open Marriage open to learning oral sex orgasm other's pain PAIN/FEARS parallel lives parents partner feels PATH OF EVOLUTION PATH OF PROTECTION PEGGY PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY power struggle problems protective circle question resistance Sally Jesse Raphael sexual sexual fantasies share shut Silent Treatment someone sometimes Sue cooked talk tense therapy things trying to control uncomfortable unhappy unimportant upset values and beliefs vulnerable wanting to understand withdrawal