Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved by You?Hazelden, 1994年4月19日 - 336 頁 The euphoria experienced when a new relationship begins soon wears off. Anger, disappointment or even hurt may begin to creep into long term relationships. Whether disputes are over money or sex, or simply that neither partner feels like talking at the same time - many couples may start to feel it's time to stop the rot. The aim of this book is to teach couples how to work through conflict and create more love and intimacy, not less. Chapters relate to fears and false beliefs that act as obstacles to loving feelings. In addition a section of exercises is provided for couples to explore together their feelings and beliefs about values, power struggles, and sexual expectations. |
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... disapproval . A small child's inner sense of self is not strong enough to tolerate much disapproval . When not approved of for ourselves as we are - especially for our feelings we begin to mistrust the rightness of the feelings them ...
... disapproval . A small child's inner sense of self is not strong enough to tolerate much disapproval . When not approved of for ourselves as we are - especially for our feelings we begin to mistrust the rightness of the feelings them ...
第 166 頁
... disapproval , followed by more drastic methods if that doesn't work . Approval is so important to most people that often the mere threat of disapproval is enough to get the other person to change . All forms of disapproval are ...
... disapproval , followed by more drastic methods if that doesn't work . Approval is so important to most people that often the mere threat of disapproval is enough to get the other person to change . All forms of disapproval are ...
第 167 頁
... disapproval or guilt over having done something wrong . Disapproval also entails a punishment : " This is what you're going to get when you disappoint or upset me . " To try to control someone is to demand rather than to ask or ...
... disapproval or guilt over having done something wrong . Disapproval also entails a punishment : " This is what you're going to get when you disappoint or upset me . " To try to control someone is to demand rather than to ask or ...
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Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? | 1 |
The Paths through Conflict | 21 |
The How of Learning | 47 |
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afraid anger angry attempt become aware behave behavior believe blame Briggs points conflict couples critical deeply defensive difficulties disapproval emotional Evolving Relationship exercise expectations experience explore fear feel guilty feel loved feel wrong felt freedom give happen hard Hour Magazine hurt important insecure intent to learn INTENT TO PROTECT intimacy Intimate Love issue Jordan Joseph Chilton Pearce lives Lonnie Barbach losing Margie Marilyn marriage Masturbating mate MAXINE MILT mother/father NATHANIEL BRANDEN never okay Open Marriage open to learning oral sex orgasm other's pain PAIN/FEARS parallel lives parents partner feels PATH OF EVOLUTION PATH OF PROTECTION PEGGY PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY power struggle problems protective circle question resistance Sally Jesse Raphael sexual sexual fantasies share shut Silent Treatment someone sometimes Sue cooked talk tense therapy things trying to control uncomfortable unhappy unimportant upset values and beliefs vulnerable wanting to understand withdrawal