Do I Have to Give Up Me to be Loved by You?Hazelden, 1994年4月19日 - 336 頁 The euphoria experienced when a new relationship begins soon wears off. Anger, disappointment or even hurt may begin to creep into long term relationships. Whether disputes are over money or sex, or simply that neither partner feels like talking at the same time - many couples may start to feel it's time to stop the rot. The aim of this book is to teach couples how to work through conflict and create more love and intimacy, not less. Chapters relate to fears and false beliefs that act as obstacles to loving feelings. In addition a section of exercises is provided for couples to explore together their feelings and beliefs about values, power struggles, and sexual expectations. |
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... Resistance . We explained compliant behavior as giving oneself up and going along with what another wants out of fear , obligation , or guilt . This chapter shows the specific behaviors attached to Control and Indifference / Resistance ...
... Resistance . We explained compliant behavior as giving oneself up and going along with what another wants out of fear , obligation , or guilt . This chapter shows the specific behaviors attached to Control and Indifference / Resistance ...
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... resistance , Hal was also in a very difficult position . If he was not to pressure Lucy , he had to decide what he needed to do for himself in the face of her resistance . Should he masturbate ? Have an affair ? Leave the relationship ...
... resistance , Hal was also in a very difficult position . If he was not to pressure Lucy , he had to decide what he needed to do for himself in the face of her resistance . Should he masturbate ? Have an affair ? Leave the relationship ...
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... Resistant Position This is the most difficult position to work with because when we resist we see ourselves as merely ... resistance ? 2. Why don't you tell your partner when you are resisting and initiate an exploration to understand ...
... Resistant Position This is the most difficult position to work with because when we resist we see ourselves as merely ... resistance ? 2. Why don't you tell your partner when you are resisting and initiate an exploration to understand ...
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Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You? | 1 |
The Paths through Conflict | 21 |
The How of Learning | 47 |
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