Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You Workbook: Workbook - Second Edition
A companion to the best-selling book of the same title, this popular, newly revised workbook helps couples create a deeply satisfying, more intimate relationship.
A companion to the best-selling book of the same title, this popular, newly revised workbook helps couples create a deeply satisfying, more intimate relationship. Focusing on the ever-present dynamic of conflict-and the process of working through it-the authors guide couples in getting to the root of recurring disagreements and destructive behaviors. Self-assessment exercises and couple activities help readers recognize unloving responses, move past fear, identify self-protective and negative beliefs, break down power struggles, and reach out in forgiveness. The principles outlined in this powerful, easy-to-use workbook have helped thousands of couples and families create more loving relationships.Key features and benefitsa proven best-sellerhighly recommended by marriage therapistsincludes exercises for couples to explore core beliefs and values
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Throughout our life together, our most profound learning came about as a result of our conflicts with each other. What we learned, we took into other relationships—with children, parents, friends, exmates, clients, siblings, ...
There are three categories of protective reactions: (1) overt control— attempting to get others to change their behavior through instilling fear or guilt; (2) covert control: compliance—going along with what others want out of fear or ...
The most challenging path you can pursue is learning to react in a caring way to yourself and another person no matter what the other person is doing. To see compliant behavior as unloving is a real stretch for most people After all, ...
Anything other than an intention to learn is protective. When you're open to learning from conflict, you want to understand yourself and the other person. You want to learn from your feelings rather than protect against them.
When the other person is not available, you can learn about yourself by looking at your part in creating the conflict, or you can read, think, write, or enlist the help of a friend or therapist. We all want love, and we wait for others ...
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This book is for everyone who wants the excitement of feeling in love along with the richnes and dimension that comes only with a lasting, committed relationship. Contents include charts illustrating ... 閱讀評論全文
Protections and Consequences
Looking at Compliance and Emotional Caretaking
Consequences of Protections
Acknowledging and Respecting Fear
Fear of Pain