Do I Have to Give Up Me to Be Loved by You?Hazelden, 1992 - 211 頁 A companion to the best-selling book of the same title, this popular, newly revised workbook helps couples create a deeply satisfying, more intimate relationship. Focusing on the ever-present dynamic of conflict-and the process of working through it-the authors guide couples in getting to the root of recurring disagreements and destructive behaviors. Self-assessment exercises and couple activities help readers recognize unloving responses, move past fear, identify self-protective and negative beliefs, break down power struggles, and reach out in forgiveness. The principles outlined in this powerful, easy-to-use workbook have helped thousands of couples and families create more loving relationships. Key features and benefits a proven best-seller highly recommended by marriage therapists includes exercises for couples to explore core beliefs and values |
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第 66 頁
... victim is certainly not taking responsibility or being loving , but there is a part of you that wants to be a victim . It's important not to deny that part but to acknowledge and accept it . One way to work with your victim feelings is ...
... victim is certainly not taking responsibility or being loving , but there is a part of you that wants to be a victim . It's important not to deny that part but to acknowledge and accept it . One way to work with your victim feelings is ...
第 167 頁
... victim . In chapter 6 we discussed two kinds of pain : blaming , victim pain ( " Poor me , you're making me miserable " ) , which shifts responsibility to others , prevents learning , and keeps the person stuck ; and nonblaming pain ...
... victim . In chapter 6 we discussed two kinds of pain : blaming , victim pain ( " Poor me , you're making me miserable " ) , which shifts responsibility to others , prevents learning , and keeps the person stuck ; and nonblaming pain ...
第 175 頁
... victim is a very helpless , terrible pain to feel . But the pain of cleansing , which this is , is very releasing , very healing when you go into it . The pain feels like it's moving out . Is it ? Yes , because you are releasing ...
... victim is a very helpless , terrible pain to feel . But the pain of cleansing , which this is , is very releasing , very healing when you go into it . The pain feels like it's moving out . Is it ? Yes , because you are releasing ...
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Exploring Beliefs about Right and Wrong | 8 |
Our Personal Odyssey Untangling | 29 |
INTRODUCTION TO SECTION II | 49 |
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